Why Your Kids Don’t Want the Family China—and What You Can Do About It
Article by Adam Zimmerman
01.18.2025
If you’ve been holding onto your family’s fine china, hoping to pass it down to your kids, you’re not alone. Many people believe these heirlooms, often lovingly passed down through multiple generations, will find a cherished place in the next generation’s home. However, the reality is often different. A recent article in The New York Times, titled One Set of China, Five Generations, sheds light on this growing trend: younger generations are saying “no thanks” to their parents’ and grandparents’ family china. You can read the full article here: One Set of China, Five Generations
Quick Summary of the Article
The New York Times article tells the story of one family’s set of china that has been passed down through five generations. While the current owner treasures the set as a link to their ancestors, they are uncertain if the next generation will feel the same. The article highlights a broader cultural shift—today’s younger generations often don’t see china as a practical or meaningful inheritance. With smaller living spaces and more casual lifestyles, they’re opting out of formal dinnerware in favor of simpler, more functional alternatives. This story serves as a poignant example of the growing disconnect between the sentimental value older generations place on these items and the practicality-driven mindset of the younger ones.
What Can You Do With Unwanted Heirlooms?
If you’re facing this dilemma, don’t despair. There are still meaningful ways to handle your family china without it ending up in a landfill:
Sell It
While the market for china has softened, there are still buyers out there—especially for high-quality or rare patterns. Research auction houses or consignment shops that specialize in tableware, or consult with an expert who can help you evaluate its value and find potential buyers.Repurpose It
Some creative individuals turn old china into decorative pieces, such as wall art, jewelry, or mosaics. This can be a way to preserve the sentimental value while giving it a new purpose.Donate It
Many organizations, such as shelters or thrift stores, accept donations of china and tableware. While your kids may not want it, someone else might find it useful or beautiful.Gift It Thoughtfully
Even if your children don’t want the full set, consider gifting a single piece—like a serving platter or teacup—that might hold sentimental value. A smaller keepsake is often easier to accept than an entire set.Keep What Matters Most
If your china holds deep sentimental value for you, consider keeping a few favorite pieces for yourself. You don’t have to hold onto the entire set—just enough to spark joy and memories.
Embracing the Change
It can be difficult to let go of heirlooms that have been in your family for generations, but it’s important to remember that your memories are not tied to the physical objects. The love, traditions, and stories behind those items will always remain with you.
If you are trying to figure out if your dishes or other items are worth anything, please take a look through the Antique Help site. Many resources are here to help you through the process of evaluating your family heirlooms. You may also book a call to get one-on-one advice on other possible options to help you here.
